But then you realized, “hey, I really want to be in a relationship! I want to get married someday!”

So you experimented.

You checked out the folks at church… joined singles groups… peeked in at the bars.

You explored the dating apps… then quit the dating apps… then found new dating apps to try.

You went on blind dates with your mom’s best friend’s nephew or your best friend’s girlfriend’s sister.

You even thought about applying to be on the next season of the Bachelor/ette!

You’ve been praying. You’ve been waiting. And you’re still waiting, because that’s what true love does, right? It waits.

But you’re getting just a tad impatient. Did God forget to start writing your love story?! Did your future spouse misplace their Tinder/Bumble/Match password?

How can you move this process along FASTER, thankyouverymuch?!

If dating feels like an energy-sucking item on your to-do list… Like a test you have to survive just to make it to the altar…

Here’s the good news: you’re not broken. You were just never taught how to date, and
you might just be approaching it in a way that was never going to be sustainable.

For so long, many of us have been conditioned to navigate dating alone—to figure it out quietly, spiritually white-knuckle the process, and hope we somehow stumble into the “right” relationship at the end.

That’s exhausting.

What you actually need isn’t more rigid rules, more willpower, or more noise from the outside world. You need clarity, honest reflection, and personal guidance, with space to integrate what you’re learning in real life.

That’s where my work comes in.

I offer bespoke, one-on-one, call-free dating and relationship coaching for men and women who are ready to approach dating with intention, faith, and self-trust. (Click here to learn more.) This is highly personal work, centered on you, your patterns, your values, and the kind of relationship you’re truly called to build—a partnership!

Because while your growth is personal, it doesn’t have to happen in isolation.

Whether you’re single and dating, rebuilding after disappointment, or intentionally preparing for a healthy marriage, you don’t need to do this alone—and you don’t need to do it the way you always have.

Dating is hard. But with the right guidance, it can also be purposeful, clarifying, and deeply formative.

It’s good to have you here!